Thursday, January 16, 2025

Traveling A Cappella

     This is a very old photo of my siblings and I. I am the tall one with the striped shirt. My brother made a very awesome buggy out of scrap lumber, a discarded Christmas display, rope, and old wheels. The engine was environmentally friendly, but it had limits. It worked best going downhill. 😊
     The buggy was just for fun. For genuine transportation, my family used a Rambler station wagon, which is on the right in the photo. My father used that car to get to work and back everyday. We also went to the grocery store, the doctor, and into town. For us in those days, the town was Keyport, which wasn't a big town but it had a bakery, a Chinese restaurant, and a 5 & 10 cent store, Newberry's, which was our favorite store. 
     When Dad took a vacation, we piled into the Rambler and took a long trip out to visit my grandparents in western Pennsylvania and then went into Ohio to see my aunt and cousins. 
     The station wagon did not have air conditioning. My hair became impossibly tangled in the wind whipping through the windows. The car had an AM radio and it was difficult to pull in signals when driving through the mountains. Most often we sang our way to my grandparents' house. My mother led the singing. She liked to sing. Since she was in Marines during World War II, we always started off with the Marine's Hymn. They we sang the rest of the military songs, The Army Goes Rolling Along, as so forth. I always get teary-eyed when I hear those songs now. 
     Mom sang popular songs from her youth in the 1920s and the 1930s, too. I grew up knowing a lot of old songs. 
     One summer, I took accordion lessons. My parents rented a small twelve bass accordion and for ten weeks, they paid for me to learn music. When we went out to Pennsylvania that summer, the accordion went with us. I sat all the way in the back of the car with the luggage and played the accordion. That year, we all had accompaniment for our singing.
     The accordion lessons didn't last past the ten weeks. After that, the accordion school insisted my parents had to buy a huge 120 bass accordion for me. It was very expensive and also very heavy. My parents could not afford it. Also, my father took one look at the accordion and did not believe skinny little me could ever manage it. 
     So the next trip out to Pennsylvania was again a cappella, which was fine. We sang all of Mom's favorites and learned them by heart. 
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Thursday, January 09, 2025

Health Care in the Old Days


      That’s my brother in front with the airplane and the cowboy boots. I’m right behind him with similar cowboy boots. This photo was taken in Jersey City—before we moved to Cliffwood Beach. It was also taken before my brother, at the age of 5,  jumped off the porch one day imitating Superman. He didn't fly. He broke his arm. My family had hospital insurance, so the broken arm was fixed. However, back in the old days, the only health insurance we had was for a visit to the hospital. Any visits to the doctor for illnesses or well check-ups were not covered. 
     The pediatrician who cared for me and my siblings charged $3 for an office visit and $5 for a house visit. Once I heard him compliment our family by calling us "God-fearing" people. As I child, I wasn't quite sure about that term but I knew we had to behave ourselves. 
     The pediatrician was a good diagnostician, too. When one of our neighbor's daughters became very ill, my mom told the family to take the child to our pediatrician. He knew what the problem was. While the young girl went through a long recovery, she did get better. Of course, Mom made cream puffs for the family so I'm sure that cheered them up. At least, a bit. 
     For the most part, we didn't see the doctor unless we were quite sick. Three dollars doesn't sound like a lot nowadays, but it was a lot in the 1950s. (You can see a list of the cost of other items here.) Of course, salaries were far less back then, too)
     Mom always had clean rags and oatmeal poultices to cure cuts and scrapes. Most of the time my siblings and I had the usual childhood diseases. We also had our tonsils removed. On some occasions we needed antibiotics and then we had to see the doctor. But our pediatrician was a kind and understanding man. When my youngest sister developed pneumonia from the measles, he did not recommend the hospital for her since he knew it would be a traumatic experience for one so young. She was a sensitive child. The doctor had a nurse come to the house and care for my sister. I have no idea how much that cost. But my poor mother needed some sleep, so it actually helped the entire family.  
    That pediatrician was a real hero, in my point of view. Our family was very blessed to have such a wonderful doctor caring for us.
     ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
    

Thursday, January 02, 2025

In The Old Days

     There are people who believe the old days were the best. Since I am now 75, I look back at growing up in the 1950s and remember not everything was rosy in those days. Some aspects were positive, especially since it was a relatively peaceful time in the world, but there were still difficulties, especially for women.      

     My mother and father were married in 1947. My brother was born in 1948. A year and ten days later, I was born. My mother had Rh negative blood. My blood was Rh positive, so I’m lucky I’m here. Nowadays, there is an injection (RhoGAM) available to women who are Rh negative so that their antibodies do not attack the Rh positive baby in their womb. My mother gave birth to another little girl in 1952, but that baby died only a few days afterward. 

Polio was a terrible scourge at the time. At the age of three, I was suddenly unable to walk. My parents took me to the hospital where I was put into isolation, since the doctors thought I might have polio. Being in a large empty room, in a crib, is one of my first memories. Fortunately, whatever I had vanished with the aid of antibiotics. 

Mom gave birth to another girl in 1954. She was healthy. 

My brother and I started school and proceeded to be sick much of the time with measles, chicken pox, and other diseases. Fortunately, the polio vaccine became available and we were spared from getting that horrible disease.

Mom and Dad bought a very unfinished house. It was what they could afford on a journalist’s salary. It needed interior walls, insulation, and sheetrock to make it livable. Dad took my brother with him on weekends for assistance. My brother was seven, but he could hand Dad nails and such. We moved into the house in 1955. 

Mom became pregnant again. This time she started bleeding and the doctor feared she would lose the baby due to a miscarriage. My mother spent the rest of that pregnancy sitting down with her feet elevated. It was at that time my mom taught me to embroider and crochet. Mom was an artist and she liked being busy. She decided on a taking a mail order course to become an interior decorator. She finished the course. My youngest sister was born in 1958. 

By that time, I was eight years old and my poor mother was worn out. I was old enough to reach the knobs on the stove, to hang out the laundry on the line to dry, to change my sister’s diapers, and do a myriad of other household chores. 

Meanwhile, my maternal grandfather came for a visit and encouraged my father to dig out a basement under the house. That project lasted for many years. Obviously, my father still had a full time job at the newspaper, but on weekends he used a pick ax to dig through the solid clay under the house. Often, my brother helped Dad by taking wheelbarrows full of clay out of the basement and dumping it on the hill. I helped by bringing Dad large mugs of coffee. Sometimes, I played with the clay as did my sisters.

This division of labor worked quite well. Now and then my brother and I would get some time off to go on adventures. We considered our younger sisters “the kids.” My brother built a small go cart, which we called a buggy, from leftover nails, old baby carriage wheels, odd pieces of scrap lumber, and a rope. Most often, I was the engine, which I deemed quite unfair. My brother decided the solution was for both of us to ride our buggy down Cinder Hill, an unpaved street with a steep incline that went right to the edge of the bay. 

As we started to zip down the hill, a car came up the hill towards us. My brother made a sharp turn to the right. I was thrown into the gravel at the side and my brother landed underneath the buggy. We were scratched up but nothing was broken. However, that was the last time we went down Cinder Hill.


Did you grow up in the 1950s? What were some of your youthful experiences?

Thursday, December 26, 2024

A Christmas Excerpt from SEA OF HOPE


     SEA OF HOPE was my first published book and a 2002 EPIC Award Winner for Best Inspirational Novel. It is set in a small New Jersey fishing community. The heroine's father passed away and his fishing trawler, the Merrichase, has been willed to a stranger. The heroine's uncle is the pastor of the local church in that community where she grew up. Below is her uncle's Christmas homily.

     Then Uncle Walter reminded his congregation of the joy everyone should have in their hearts at the celebration of the birth of their Savior. “Christmas is not about who gets the biggest and best toys,” he whispered close into the microphone and then paused again. “It’s about eternal life, God’s great gift to us all,” his voice grew in intensity. “And it is about forgiveness. You are saved by the grace of God who sent His Son to wash away your sins with His blood.” 
     Uncle Walter’s words thundered through the speakers and filled the church. For a moment, her uncle stopped speaking. Total silence reigned in the nave. Then, slowly, he drew in a great breath, an act made more dramatic by the amplification. “Thank Him,” Uncle Walter spoke softly. “Thank Him with all your heart.” 
     Doria dared to glance up in time to see him turn and walk heavily back to his chair to sit. A hush gathered over the people as Uncle Walter’s words sank into their usually cluttered minds. With bowed heads they mulled over their pastor’s message. The tightness grew in Doria’s throat. Her uncle’s words had touched everyone, even her. How could she have stayed away from church for so long? How could she have ignored the truth? She needed the Lord in her life. He was her only hope. Especially now.

     I've heard many, many Christmas homilies over the years and while the one in Sea Of Hope is brief, I hoped to convey in it the conversion of the heroine's heart. 
     Christmas is over in the minds of many people. The gifts have been opened, the cookies eaten, and the family visits are completed. But Christ can always be in our hearts all year long. The true gift of Christmas is His love for us. 

🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄
     

Sunday, December 15, 2024

Newest Review for MAKING CHRISTMAS AGAIN!

I received a wonderful review for Making Christmas Again from Lynn Goodwin at Reedsy Discovery. She said she, 

"Loved it! 😍 

With a warm tone, well-rounded people, and a plot that won’t stop churning, the author skillfully lets you into the character's lives."

Visit:

 https://reedsy.com/discovery/book/making-christmas-again-penelope-marzec#review

You can read the entire review AND a preview of the book. 

Thursday, December 12, 2024

The Galley for Love’s Gift

 


A few day ago, I received the galley for Love’s Gift, my historical romance, which is due to be released in March. I was very excited and told some friends of mine who aren’t authors. They never heard of a galley in reference to a book.

The word galley goes back a long way, from the ancient days of printing. Before computers, printing was done with metal pieces of the alphabet set in lines and placed into a metal pan, which was called a galley. Despite the advances in printing, the word continues to be used.

Since my father was a journalist, I had the advantage of seeing printers using hot lead to set the news stories for the day. It was rather fascinating, but definitely time consuming and working with hot metal type seemed dangerous to me, but that’s how it was done before computers took over.

I think it was a great idea to do away with the hot lead process.  

In today’s publishing world, the galley arrives as a pdf. I read through it, line by line, and make sure there aren’t any mistakes. Unfortunately, there always are things that need fixing. Though at the galley stage, an author cannot make any big changes in the document. When I find an error, I have to record it in a separate document, noting the page number and line number. I cannot make any corrections on the pdf.

After the galley is sent back to the publisher with the corrections, the errors are fixed and the book is ready for publication. So, getting a galley is a huge step toward publication. In fact, you can pre-order the book now at https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Gift-Penelope-Marzec-ebook/dp/B0D49BZ5P4



Thursday, November 21, 2024

Reviews for MAKING CHRISTMAS AGAIN!

So far, MAKING CHRISTMAS AGAIN has gotten some very wonderful reviews and I am grateful to those who took the time to write and post their thoughts on this novella. 

A. Klumpers wrote, 

     "'Making Christmas Again' by Penelope Marzec is a heartwarming story, but that doesn’t mean it’s trite or cliche. Before our hearts can warm, they run a gamut of emotions. (Or at least they do if you’re an empathetic reader. If you’re the clinical type who doesn’t jump right into the characters’ skin (or shoes) you can still enjoy a good story told with good writing.)As I was saying—while this is ultimately a tale of joy, it first plunges us into the bleak sorrow of Celeste. Life has thrown her a surplus of grief. Her beloved sister died before she reached her teens. Her father died while still in his prime. And she’s just come home to her ‘lovely, small, unremarkable” hometown because her mother has died. There is nothing for her in Apple Hill, New Jersey. But she’s burned her bridges with her job in Kentucky when she turned whistleblower against her corrupt boss. She is a broken woman and we don’t really know if she has the moral fortitude to get through her grief and anxiety and a man living in her basement.
     Sawyer doesn’t really LIVE in her basement. Just keeps his stuff there and sleeps there when blizzards—which are apparently common in NJ—hit. Sawyer is grieving the loss of his wife, trying to keep his business afloat, and showering love on his adorable little son Glenn. Who, like Celeste’s beloved sister, has Down Syndrome.
     The author has a deft touch with characterizations. Sawyer is a man of faith who struggles with his heartache but is always trying to be the hands and feet of Christ. Celeste is complex—prickly and vulnerable and unreasonable and wise. How Sawyer reconciles his fear of loss with hope for the future, how Celeste finds a strength outside herself that empowers her to be vulnerable, and how the endearing Glenn holds both their hands and hearts makes for a satisfying Christmas story."

C. Revell wrote,

"Celeste returns home in a snowstorm after the death of her mother - to find things have changed without her being informed. For one thing her mother rented out the basement to a stranger named Sawyer and his cute but messy son Glenn, who like her sister has Downs Syndrome. And for another her mother rewrote her will to include Sawyer.
Lots of snow, action and Christmas make this a page turner and a yummy tummy enjoyable read. (Right!)
PS read the book to get the above reference."


Carol J. wrote,

"Making Christmas Again by Penelope Marzec is a heartwarming Christmas romance. After losing her job because she discovered some financial discrepancies at work, Celeste Greenfield returns to her family home. Because her mother recently passed away, she expects the house to be empty. But she discovers her mother has leased the basement to a single father, recently widowed, and his young Down Syndrome son, Glenn. This arrangement causes all sorts of sweet scenarios. Celeste and Sawyer are attracted to each other, yet are afraid to let themselves begin a relationship. He is working through the loss of his wife, and she is working through her loss of faith. But when the whole town comes together to support them by planning a live nativity to make Christmas again, Celeste’s heart softens. The characters are likable and inspiring. Glenn adds so much warmth to the novella. This is a charming and moving story about two broken people who turn their hearts toward God and toward each other."

M. Jean P. wrote,

"Sometimes you find your future in returning to the past. This point is so beautifully illustrated in Penelope Marzek’s Christmas novella, Making Christmas Again. Celeste is no stranger to loss. At a young age she sustained the loss of her father and her younger sister. She’d recently relocated to Kentucky for her dream job only to have it turn into a nightmare. When her mother unexpectedly passes away, Celeste returns to her childhood home in New Jersey to settle her affairs and discovers a man is renting her mother’s the basement. His presence in the house is an inconvenience to say the least. Celeste had hoped to sell the house quickly and get back to her life in Lexington. She doesn’t want anything to do with the handsome renter – or the God that he claims cares about her. The blow is softened when the man’s adorable special needs son, Glenn, steals Celeste’s heart. (He might just steal yours, too!) The author did a masterful job with these characters. I loved Celeste, Sawyer and Glenn."

Miriam T. wrote,

"A touching Christmas story filled with love. This novella does a great job of showing how difficult loss can be, especially near Christmas, but also the beauty God can bring into our lives after loss if we let Him. Celeste’s struggle to forgive and trust God after experiencing so many losses was heartfelt and relatable. I enjoyed the sweet romance between Celeste and Sawyer, as well as Celeste’s relationship with Sawyer’s son, Glenn, an adorable three-year-old with Down Syndrome. This is a sweet story of forgiveness, second chances, and love."

K. Malley wrote,

"When Celeste travels home to New Jersey after her mother’s death, she’s shocked to find a man and his adorable son in her mother’s basement. Sawyer is doing his best raising his son after the loss of his wife, but his faith in God never wavers. Celeste falls for little Glenn, who has Down Syndrome, as he reminds her so much of the sister she lost who had the same condition. Glenn is a wonderful little boy that you can’t help but smile at whenever he enters the story. Making Christmas Again is an inspirational story of Celeste returning to the God she shunned when she lost her sister. This heartwarming tale makes you root for Celeste and Sawyer to find happiness together. Along the way, they deal with blizzards, power outages, and an accident, all made better with the help of cookies!"

S. Baganz wrote,

"Reading Penelope Marzec's book Making Christmas Again is compelling, because sometimes Christmas just doesn't feel like Christmas. Have you ever experienced that?

Celeste has a lot going on. Her mother died so she's gotta leave a challenging job situation to go home to settle affairs. She's the only remaining person in her family which is terribly sad. She also had broken up with a menacing boyfriend/boss and had uncovered his embezzlement and was a whistleblower, only her employer doesn't realize this yet. She also left her mother's faith behind her, focusing more on numbers than the intangible.

She arrives home to find someone living in her mother's basement. Make that two someones! One is a little boy has Down Syndrome which her deceased sister also had, so now she's missing her mom and her sister and there's a snowstorm.

Sawyer is the father to this precious little soul and is also grieving Mrs. Greenfield's death as she had been so helpful to him with his son after his wife died and had encouraged him in his business, even renting her basement space for his work. Celeste hadn't been told. Now he has a new landlord who can't see past her own grief and challenges to trust, much less celebrate the faith her mother held dear.

Death, upheaval, an extra chromosome, snow, and other challenges face these two characters as they find their way through each day to understanding each other and maybe even falling in love. But will Celeste stay in town or will she return to her employer leaving Sawyer's heart broken?

Through all the twists and turns, challenges, and snowstorms, these two people might find a miracle yet and Christmas might once again be cherished and celebrated."


I am so thrilled with the reviews! I hope you'll download the book and find it just as good as these reviewers thought. 

You can find it everywhere!